Family in the United States
Religion
Passages:
Birth, Marriage, and Death
Discuss the following questions with your classmates:
• How typical do you think the first picture is of U. S. families?
• Are single-parent families common in your country?
• Is it common for parents in your country to leave children in day care while they work?
• Who takes care of the children when parents are not home?
Q B. Vocabulary and Key Concepts
Read through the sentences, trying to imagine which words would fit in the blanks. Then listen to a dictation of the full sentences, and write the missing words in the blanks.
1. A hundred years ago, one heard the same comments about the family that one hears today—in short, that the American family is
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3. To the contrary, the very ily has changed__________ |
of the fam- |
in the last fifty years. |
Proof of this disintegration included evidence that women were not completely content with their_____________________________
2. To be sure, the family is a very
for what is happening in the society.
3. Demographically, the
of the family was the traditional one.
4. The country idealized the family in these years: there was a
________________________ to the family and a
________________________ for it.
5. Three characteristics stand out in this period:_____________
to social norms, greater male domination of the family, and clearcut roles.
6. These decades were characterized by a
________________________ of conformity to social norms and
included the sexual revolution and the women’s movement.
7. Another important movement was the drive for self-expression
and__________________________________________________
8. The new configuration of the family had to include families of
———————————————————————————- with or
without children.
9. The number of single-parent households_____________________
and the number of unmarried couples________________________
10. They see a continuing_________________________ in divorce
rates since the 1980s hut also a decline in birth rates after an increase in the 1980s.
11. There is an attempt to ________________________ work with
family obligations, and concern seems to be shifting from
—————————————- to the new familism.
12. Places of work may offer more________________________ working hours and
day care.
13. For its part, the government could________________________
parental leave and family__________________________
Follow-up: Check the spelling of the dictated words with your teacher.
Discuss the meanings of these words and any other unfamiliar words
in the sentences.
Using the photograph and the vocabulary exercise as a starting point, write three questions that you think will be answered in the lecture.
Examples: • How big are American families compared to those in
other parts of the world?
• Does a divorced mother sometimes move back with her parents?
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Follow-up: After you have written your questions, share them with your teacher and your classmates.
A good notetaker knows that it is neither efficient nor necessary to take down a lecture word for word. A good notetaker listens for relevant information and then uses key words to take down only the essential information. A good way to pick key words is to concentrate on the content words you hear: nouns, verbs, adjectives, and adverbs. (Auxiliaries, the verb to be, pronouns, and prepositions are structure words, words that receive less stress when spoken. They are less important in your notes, too.)
Practice reducing information to key words by using the sentences from Vocabulary and Key Concepts. Do sentences 5, 7, 8, 11, and 12. Sentence 2 has been done for you.
2. Proof of disintegration: women not content with domestic role.
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Follow-up: With a partner, test your key words by trying to recall all the information in the sentences from what you wrote. Your partner will check to see if you can recall the message, not necessarily the exact words of the original sentences. Then change roles and test your partner’s key words in the same way.
Lecturers usually use rhetorical cues to help their listeners follow the lecture. A rhetorical cue is a word or even a sentence that lets us know that some important information is coming or that a new subtopic or point is being introduced. Look at these rhetorical cues, and decide in which order you will probably hear them in today’s lecture. Order them from first (1) to fifth (5).
__ a. Well, let’s proceed in chronological order and start with the
traditional familism.
__ b. The third period, the new familism, is harder to see because
we are living in this period now.
__ c. The second period, the period of individualism, saw three
important social and political movements.
__ d. To make this point clearer, we’ll take a look at how the
American family has changed in the last fifty years by looking at three different time periods.
__ e. Because individualism is so often mentioned in our discussion of U. S. culture and people, I should make a little detour before we discuss it.
Follow-up: Discuss your answers as a class.
Listen for general ideas. The lecturer looks at changes in the family over the last fifty years and divides the changes into three different periods, each with its own label. For each period, the lecturer looks at cultural, economic, and demographic aspects of the family. As you listen, decide what the three different periods are, and write them under ST1, ST2, and ST3. Take down details you have time for, but make sure you take down the subtopics.
NOTES
Introduction:
ST1
ST3
Follow-up: Now check your major subtopics with your teacher.
While listening again, write down necessary relevant details below the main subtopic to which they belong. Remember to use key words to save time.
Follow-up: Check your notes. If you missed important information or have doubts about your notes, (1) verify them by asking a classmate questions to fill the gaps in your notes or (2) listen to the lecture a third time. When verifying your notes with a classmate, do not show each other your notes,- ask specific questions to get the information you need.
Examples: • Do you have any idea what domestic means?
• Did you understand the explanation of individualism?
• How many different movements were discussed for the second period?
This is also a good time to check to see if the lecturer answered your Predictions questions about the lecture.
HI. POSTLISTENING______________________________________________________
Listen to the following questions, and write short answers. Use your notes. You will hear each question one time only.
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Follow-up: Check your answers with your teacher. If your score is less than 70 percent, you may need to listen to the lecture again or rewrite your notes so that you can understand and retrieve the information in them.
In groups of three, use your notes to reproduce sections of the lecture. Each member of your group should bring up a point from the introduction that he or she finds interesting. Then Student A will present the information in subtopic 1, Student В the information in subtopic 2, and Student C the information in subtopic 3. If you don’t understand or you disagree with what you hear, wait until your classmate finishes. Then bring your notes into agreement by seeking clarification, as follows:
• Would you mind repeating what you said about the sexual revolution? I didn’t catch it.
• I don’t think my notes agree with yours on the matter of cultural developments during the second period. In my notes, I wrote that….
If your class is multinational, prepare a short oral report about the family in your country, covering the points below. Work with the other students from your country.
If your classmates are all from your country, discuss the family in your country as a class. Discuss these points:
• Is there a predominant family configuration in your country?
• Has it changed in the last fifty years?
• What effects have economic, demographic, and cultural changes had on the family in your country?
Work with a partner, and use your notes to write a summary of the lecture in 125 words or less. Answer this question for your first main idea sentence: Has the U. S. family changed a little or a lot in the last fifty years? Then characterize each of the three periods by choosing relevant information about demographic, cultural, and economic points.
Follow-up: Share your summary with at least one other pair. Find something you like in each summary that you read. Alternatively, your teacher may ask for volunteers to read their summaries to the class.
The following are recommended for a closer look at the American family:
The United Nations Statistics Division: This site has demographic and social statistical information from around the world. From the home page, locate Demographic and Social statistics; then locate the link to World’s Women 2000 to find information about women, families, wages, marriages, and other issues gathered in 2000.
www. welleslev. edu/WomenSt/Familv Gender Resources/web. html Families and Gender Studies Resources Page: This site contains links to many other sites that deal with abortion, adoption, gay families, motherhood, reproductive technologies, work, and family social policy, among others. To find additional information and resources, do a general Internet search for the keyword Family Studies.
Chollar, Susan. "Happy Families: Who Says They All Have to Be Alike?" American Health, July-August 1993, pp. 52-57.
Chollar discusses a variety of successful family configurations.
Etzioni, Amitai. "Children of the Universe." UTNE Reader, May/June 1993, pp. 52-61.
Etzioni discusses the roles of U. S. parents and government in raising children.
Kimmel, Michael. "What Do Men Want?" Harvard Business Review, December 1993, pp. 50-63.
Changing economics force American men to redefine themselves, but U. S. companies aren’t keeping up to allow men to take on their new roles.
Mrs. Doubtfire, Chris Columbus, director; 119 minutes, PG-13.
This comedy shows the extremes to which a father will go to be near his children after their mother divorces him.
Kramer vs. Kramer, Robert Benton, director; 105 minutes.
A serious film that shows the break-up of a marriage and investigates the issue of child custody in such cases.
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S. worker in 1999. • are usually in the form of a statement. • are more general and require at least a paragraph—that is, several sentences—to answer fully. • usually begin with a headword such as discuss, describe, explain, compare and contrast, list, analyze, or summarize. These headwords explain the writer’s purpose in answering the question: 1. to give all sides of the topic (discuss) 2. to give all the important details of something (describe) 3. to make something clear by giving reasons or by explaining how to do it (explain) 4. to write the similarities and differences (compare and contrast) 5. to name the parts of something, one by one (list) 6. to break something into its logical parts in order to explain it (analyze) 7. to write something in a shorter form, giving the main ideas and omitting the details (summarize) Exercise 2 Judge these questions by the above characteristics. Mark each question + if it is good and – if it is bad. Discuss reasons for your choices, citing the characteristics above. ___ 1. Compare the U. S. worker in 1900 and 1999. ___ 2. List the percentage of U. S. women who were working in 1999. ___ 3. Discuss the child labor laws that were in place by 1999. ___ 4. Discuss the U. S. workers today in terms of productivity and wages. Write your group’s questions on the following pages.
UNIT QUIZ DIRECTIONS Read MoreListen to the following questions, and write short answers. You will hear each question one time only. 1. _ 2. __ 3. ________________________________________________________________ 4. ________________________________________________________________ 5. ________________________________________________________ 6. ___________________________________________________________________________ 7. T____________________________ 8. 10.__________________________________________________________________ Follow-up: Check your answers with your teacher. If your score is less than 70 percent, you may need to listen to the lecture again or rewrite your notes so that you can understand and use them later. In pairs, use your notes to reproduce sections of the lecture. Student A will present the introduction and subtopic 1 including details to Student B. Student В will present subtopic 2 including details. Check what you hear against your notes. If you don’t understand or you disagree with what you hear, wait until your partner finishes. Then bring your notes into agreement by seeking clarification, as follows: • I don’t think the lecturer said 60 percent of the workforce were women in 1999. • Could you repeat what you said about the average per capita income in 1999? • Did you understand the meaning of "a rising trend"? If you and your classmates come from different countries, prepare a short oral report about work in your country, covering the points below. Work with other students from your country. If your classmates are all from the same country, discuss work in your country as a class, covering the points below. • how work changed over the last century • what kind of work most people in your country do • what percentage of women arc employed • how many hours a week most people work • whether things are getting better for workers or not Discuss the following questions in small groups. Appoint one person to report your group’s opinions to the class. 1. Do you think most people are happy to leave farms to go work in industry? Explain your answer. 2. Is there ever a good reason for children to work? Why or why not? 3. Should women have the same opportunities to be employed as men, both before and after they are married? Give reasons. 4. Should the government set the number of weeks of vacation workers get each year? Why or why not? 5. Should workers share in the profits of the companies they work for? Explain your answer. The following are recommended for a closer look at work in the United States: Schor, Juliet B. The Overworked American. New York: Basic Books, 1993. In her best-selling book, Schor concluded that Americans worked an average of one month more per year in 1990 than in 1970. Ciulla, Joanne B. The Working Life. New York: Times Books, 2000. Ciulla concludes that Americans let their work define them, which is dangerous as companies generally see workers as replaceable cogs. Fraser, Jill Andresky. The White-Collar Sweatshop. New York: W. W. Norton St Company, 2002. From her five years of interviews across the country with white – collar workers, Frazier describes what she believes has gone wrong and suggests possible solutions for workers. American Dream, Barbara Kopple, director; 100 minutes, no rating. The film shows the attempts of workers at a huge meat-packing plant to negotiate salaries with the help of their union. Interview an American who has worked at a job for at least five years. Beforehand, prepare interview questions as a class to ask. Here are some suggestions: • where the person works • how long he or she has worked there • how he or she feels about the job • what the person’s favorite and least favorite parts of the job are • four to five additional questions the class is interested in • During the interview, write down the answers to the questions, and later share the information with your classmates. Variation: Invite an American to visit your class, and have the whole class interview him or her by using the questions you wrote. Read MoreDiscuss the following questions with your classmates: • What is the name of the famous CEO (chief executive officer) in one of the photos? • In which photo are the workers offering a service? • Do you think U. S. workers are more, equally, or less productive than workers in other industrialized countries? • How many weeks a year of vacation do you think the average U. S. worker has? B. Vocabulary and Key Concepts Read through the sentences, trying to imagine which words would fit in the blanks. Then listen to a dictation of the full sentences, and write the missing words in the blanks. 1. As we look at the changes over the last century, we’ll use a lot of to describe these changes. 2. While the number of people in these___________________ __________________ industries went down, the number of people in the___________________ industries went up. 3. Over the years, child labor laws became much_________________ and by 1999, it was___________________ for anyone under sixteen to work full-time in any of the fifty states. 4. In 1900 the average____________________________________ income was $4,200. 5. One of the important__________________ most workers received later in the century was___________________ 6. Whereas__________________ and salaries rose over the century, the average__________________ dropped. 7. People often tend to__________________ the past and talk about "the good old days." 8. According to a 2003__________________ released by the United Nations International Labor Organization, U. S. workers are the most in the world. 9. Longer working horns in the United States is a________________ trend, whereas the trend in other industrialized countries is the 10. Workers in some European countries actually__________________ American workers per hour of work. 11. This higher rate of productivity might be because European workers are less than U. S. workers. 12. Between 1949 and 1974, increases in productivity were by increases in wages. 13. After 1974, productivity increased in manufacturing and services, but real wages__________________ . 14. According to a recent book, the money goes for salaries to., to the stock market, and to corporate 15. Some people say that labor__________________ have lost power since the beginning of the 1980s, and that the government has passed laws that__________________ the rich and weaken the rights of the workers. Follow-up: Check the spelling of the dictated words with your teacher. Discuss the meaning of these words and any other unfamiliar words in the sentences. Using the photographs and the vocabulary exercise as a starting point, write three questions that you think will be answered in the lecture. Examples: • How much money did U. S. workers make at the beginning of the last century? 2. 3. Follow-up: After you have written your questions, share them with your teacher and your classmates. To save time and get down more information when you listen to a lecture, it is helpful to abbreviate words. It is important to abbreviate them in a way that will allow you to remember what the full form is, of course. Another person’s abbreviation may not help you remember. Practice abbreviating the following terms you will hear in the lecture in a way that you will know what each abbreviation stands for a few days or a few weeks later. Look at the examples to see how some terms from the lecture have been abbreviated. Examples: historical look at work: hist lk at wk statistics: stats a. agriculture b. mining, manufacturing, and construction ________ c. service industries d. wages and salaries e. average per capita income f. health insurance g. working conditions h. increased productivity i. stock market j. labor unions Follow-up: With a partner, take turns covering up the left column. Looking at the right column, practice saying the terms that your abbreviations stand for. Your partner will check your accuracy. Lecturers usually use rhetorical cues to help their listeners follow the lecture. A rhetorical cue is a word or even a sentence that lets us know that some important information is coming or that a new subtopic or point is being introduced. Look at these rhetorical cues, and decide in which order you will probably hear them in today’s lecture. Order them from first (1) to fourth (4). ___ a. Then we’ll look at how U. S. workers are doing today. ___ b. First, we’ll take an historical look at work in America. ___ c. First, let’s consider how the type of work people were involved in changed over the last century. ___ d. Now let’s turn our attention to the current situation for U. S. workers. Follow-up: Discuss your answers as a class. ». LISTENING_______________________________________________ Listen for general ideas. In a brief introduction the lecturer makes a few remarks about how Americans look at work, and then goes on to mention his two main subtopics. NOTES Introduction: ST1 Follow-up: Now check your major subtopics with your teacher. While listening again, write down necessary relevant details below the main subtopics to which they belong. Remember to use proper number notation and abbreviations to save time. Follow-up: Check your notes. If you missed important information or have doubts about your notes, (1) verify them by asking a classmate questions to fill the gaps in your notes or (2) listen to the lecture a third time. When verifying your notes with a classmate, do not show each other your notes; ask specific questions to get the information you need. Examples: • How many children were in the workforce in 1900? • What is the name of the book the lecturer mentioned? This is also a good time to check to see if the lecturer answered your Predictions questions about the lecture. Read More |